Finishing Strong

Ephesians 6:18-24

Pastor Darrin Wright     January 25, 2009

Introduction

            The apostle Paul has taken us on quite a journey through the book of Ephesians.  We began in the “heavenly places” in chapter 1 and ended in earth’s spiritual battleground in chapter 6.  In between, he has shown us how the Lord lavished His love and grace on us in redemption, took the alienated and made them cherished members of His own family, turned our scarring divisions into His healing unity, rescued us from the pit of deception and placed us on the pinnacle of truth, and led us out of darkness to walk in His radiant light.

            With reverence and excitement, Paul has revealed that, from our most intimate relationships to our work in the world, Jesus reigns over all in grace, peace, and love.  In fact, Paul’s opening words spoke of grace and peace (1:2), and so do his closing thoughts.  In reverse order, Paul summarizes all the glorious truths about what God has done for us and how we’re to live them out with the Lord’s peace, love, and grace (6:23-24).

            In this closing section, the apostle Paul gives us insight into what it takes to finish strong.

 

I.  Finish Strong In Your Prayer Life.  (vs.18-19a)

A.     John Macarthur – “Ephesians begins by lifting us up to the heavenlies, and ends by pulling us down to our knees.”

B.     Paul counted on the power of prayer to uphold all of Christ’s people.

C.     Some commentators believe that prayer is another piece of our spiritual armor.

D.     Others believe that prayer is the way we put our armor on.

E.     Prayer is certainly one of the ways we stand firm in the protection that God has provided for us.

F.      Paul’s emphasis on prayer reminds us that prayer is something we can all do to help each other.

G.    Three Realms Of Prayer:

1.      Hidden Place.

a.      The special moment when we are alone with the Lord; it is the quiet place where we commune with him as friend with friend.

b.      Matthew 6:6 (ESV) – “But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret.  And your Father who is in secret will reward you.”

2.      Heavenly Place

a.      This is the sphere mentioned in Ephesians where the battles and blessings reside; this is where prayer is a real engagement with the enemy; the enemy tries to distract us, discourage us, and hinder our prayers through wandering thoughts, wicked thoughts, and selfish thoughts.

3.      Holy Place

a.      This is where by faith we reach out and touch the Lord, this is where we realize that God is bigger than all our problems, this is where we are overwhelmed with the greatness of God.

H.     Benefits of Prayer (Swindoll):

1.      Prayer keeps us engaged in what’s happening around us.

2.      Prayer focuses our time and energy on what God is doing.

3.      Prayer helps stabilize us when we’re tempted to worry.

4.      Prayer transforms us from negative people to positive believers because it turns our fear to hope.

I.        1 Samuel 12:23 (ESV) – “Moreover, as for me, far be it from me that I should sin against the Lord by ceasing to pray for you, and I will instruct you in the good and right way.”

II.  Finish Strong In Your Calling.  (vs.19b-20)

·         Paul was constantly focused on his calling as an apostle to the Gentiles and wanted prayers to be made for his success in that calling.

·         Paul did not ask them to pray for him to be released from his imprisonment or for God to take vengeance on his enemies.

·         Paul wanted the Ephesians to involve themselves in God’s plan for his life, specifically asking them to pray for things he regarded as essential to his ministry.

A.     Clarity.  (vs. 19b)

1.      “that words may be given to me in opening my mouth”

2.      Not merely words as sounds, but words that will penetrate; not mere eloquence, or accuracy of vocabulary, but words that issued from his lips in the power of the Holy Spirit.

3.      Every time Paul opened his mouth, he wanted to speak well of Jesus.

B.     Courage.  (vs.19b)

1.      “boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel”

2.      Paul wanted the courage to proclaim the gospel of God’s grace.

3.      When Satan tempted him to be quiet about Christ, he wanted God’s help to be bold and faithful to proclaim the gospel.

4.      Even Paul got intimidated and discouraged – he had been beaten and stoned, and he knew that the Roman powers could do to him.

5.      Paul didn’t want to live in fear.  Instead as he stood before the greatest leaders of the world, he wanted to keep Christ preeminent and make his message known.

6.      All of us no matter our situation, need the courage to stand by Christ and keep telling the truth.

7.      Boldly – Paul could encourage others to be bold by being bold himself.

8.      Philippians 1:12-14 (ESV)- “I want you to know brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel, so that it has become known throughout the whole imperial guard and to all the rest that my imprisonment is for Christ.  And most of the brothers, having become confident in the lord by my imprisonment are much more bold to speak the word without fear.”

9.      Paul wanted them to pray for clarity and courage; content and style.

10.   Clarity without courage is like sunshine in the desert; plenty of light but nothing worth looking at.  Courage without clarity is like a beautiful landscape at night time, plenty to see but no light by which to enjoy it.

C.     Calling.  (vs.20)

1.      Paul was gifted, courageous, morally upright, and spiritually strong, yet he greatly needed God’s help and the help of fellow Christians.

2.      Contradiction – ambassadors normally have diplomatic immunity to represent their country without restraint.

3.      Paul is bound, but he is also free; he is down in a dungeon, but he is also up in glory; he is handcuffed to a guard, but he is also seated with Christ in heaven.

4.      Paul was still very aware of the high calling upon his life.

5.      C.H. Spurgeon – His reply to the question:  What is the secret of your ministry?  My people pray for me.

6.      D. Marin Lloyd Jones – “Do you pray for the preachers of the Gospel?  Do you realize what happens every time a man enters a pulpit – frail, fallible, weak, and yet called of God to be His representative, and an exponent of His glorious truth?  Do you pray for preachers of the gospel?  And do you pray in particular that they may speak boldly?  By boldly the apostle means freely, frankly, that nothing be kept back.  Let me borrow the very words used by the apostle to the elders of this church at Ephesus when he bade them farewell once, as recorded in Acts 20.  He said that he had not failed to declare unto them the whole counsel of God.  Pray that I may keep nothing back, he said, that I may give it all, that I may give the Gospel in all its comprehensiveness…I emphasize this matter because it is a great problem at the present time.  We are all so diplomatic, we are all so concerned about dignity, we are all so concerned about being scholarly and not causing offense; we are all so afraid of fanaticism.  We do not pray today that preachers may speak boldly, we prefer that they should speak ecumenically…We are so afraid of being too extreme, of being too emphatic…The result is that the people do not know what the Gospel is.  What is said at the beginning is often taken back at the end, and you do not know where you are, and the trumpet yields an uncertain sound.  We are so much afraid of offending people that we tend to hold back the truth; and so the Christian faith is in jeopardy at this hour…Boldly says Paul, that is without qualification.  Pray that I may be honest, pray that I may be true, pray that I may deliver the message that has been delivered to me, that I shall not be concerned about anything but to please God and to be faithful to His Word.”

III.  Finish Strong In Your Relationships.  (vs.21-22)

A.     Paul went to great lengths to establish and maintain relationships.

B.     God has designed us to live in community – to refresh others and be refreshed, to encourage others and be encouraged, to care for others and be cared for, to give empathy and receive it, to love and be loved.

C.     We are not called to be Lone Rangers (even he had Tonto).

D.     Tychicus would bring Paul’s personal touch to the Epesians.  He would tell them how well Paul was holding up under his arrest and how the saving word of the gospel was spreading even further through Paul’s imprisonment.

E.     Relationship Principles From The Life Of Tychicus:

1.      Beloved – love

2.      Faithful

3.      Minister – servant

4.      Will tell you everything – honesty

5.      Encouragement

F.      Let others into your life so that they may know what God is doing in and through you, and open the windows of your heart so that Christ can make Himself more deeply known to you through those closest to you.

IV.  Finish Strong In Your Passion For Christ.  (vs.23-24)

·         Ephesians began with a doxology – a word of praise to the glory of God.  It now concludes with a Benediction – a pronouncement of blessing from God.

·         The benediction perfectly summarizes the blessings in Christ that the whole book of Ephesians has expounded.

A.     Peace.  (vs.23a)

1.      “peace be to the brothers”

2.      Peace – cessation of all hostilities; reestablishing in working order broken relationships; it is Shalom – well being; it comes from being set free from the dark powers that bind us and destroy us, this peace comes from being reconciled to God in Christ and working this out in relationship to others.

3.      Be to the brothers- we may be in a battle, but we are not at war with the brethren; if we are, we are fighting the wrong battle.

B.     Love with Faith.  (vs.23b)

1.      “and love with faith from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ”

2.      “have love in addition to your faith”

3.      Faith – belief + trust

4.      1 Corinthians 13:1-3 reminds us that we can have all of the doctrinal precision, but without love it means nothing.

5.      Paul used the word love fifteen times in fourteen verses in this book.

6.      Love With faith Is a Powerful Combination

                                                               i.      Love is the source and faith is the force.

                                                             ii.      Love reaches down, faith reaches up.

                                                            iii.      Love is the beginning and the end, faith lies in between.

                                                           iv.      Love reaches out the hand of God, faith takes hold of it.

                                                            v.      Love provides all that we need, and faith appropriates it.

                                                           vi.      Love says: hear you are – faith takes it and says:  thank you

7.      The church is supposed to be the community that shows the world what its supposed to be.  And the way we do this is through love.

8.      Revelation 2:2-4 (ESV) – “I know your works, your toil and your patient endurance, and how you cannot bear with those who are evil, but have tested those who call themselves apostles and are not, and found them to be false.  I know you are enduring patiently and bearing up for my name’s sake, and you have not grown weary.  But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first.”

C.     Grace.  (vs.24)

1.      Grace is how Paul started this letter (1:2), and he ends it the same way.

2.      Grace – God’s unmerited favor that shines  upon us all the time, and is with us along the way.  It is grace that sets our feet on the highway to heaven, it is grace that keeps us company on the journey, and it is grace that will see us safely home.

3.      Grace saves us, sustains us, and strengthens us.  It is ever sufficient because it is immeasureable.  Grace is undeserved, unearned, and unrepayable.

4.      Charles Swindoll – “What is it that frees us to be all he means us to be?  Grace!  What is it that permits others to be who they are, even very different from us?  Grace!  What allows us to disagree, yet stimulates us to press on?  Grace!  What adds oil to the friction points of a marriage; freeing both partners from pettiness and negativism?  Grace!  And what gives magnetic charm to a ministry, inviting others to become a part?  Grace!”

5.      Paul knows all about their surroundings, he is familiar with their worsening situation, he is conscious of their many problems and challenging difficulties, he is aware of their changing circumstances.  And so, he warmly and prayerfully commends them to the torrents of the grace of God and to the God of all grace.

6.      Notice this grace comes only through Christ, only to those who love Christ with incorruptible love.

7.      We should love Christ with a love that is undying, with a love that is without corruption, and with a love that never fades.

8.      Paul’s desire is that the grace he has expounded will be the grace we have experienced.

9.      A mighty, surging, growing love for the Savior keeps wide the floodgates of his grace and spiritual riches.

10.  John1:16 (ESV) – “And from his fullness we have all received grace upon grace.”

11.  Grace following grace; grace heaped upon grace.

Conclusion

            Finishing strong in our prayer life, in your calling, in your relationships, and in your passion for Christ will enable us to say with the apostle Paul:

2 Timothy 4:7-8 (ESV) – “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.  Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge will award to me on that Day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing.”